Across the globe — and in Kenya — people are reaching what used to be early adult milestones much later than in past generations. From long-term careers and home ownership to marriage and family, the traditional timeline (finish school → job → marry → kids → house) has stretched into someone’s 30s, 40s, or even […]
Dating in Kenya is increasingly resembling a negotiation table — a place where emotions meet budgets, expectations meet financial realities, and relationships rise or fall depending on one’s economic muscle. While love has never been entirely free of financial considerations, today’s dating landscape feels more transactional than ever, shaped by rising living costs, shifting gender […]
Internationally acclaimed singer and entrepreneur Akon is facing a high-stakes marital and financial dispute after his wife, Tomeka Thiam, filed for divorce and demanded a €100 million settlement. Court documents and legal sources suggest the case has turned more contentious than anticipated, with questions emerging over the ownership and control of the star’s assets. The […]
As couples grow old together, their love deepens, but physical intimacy often changes. In many Christian marriages, especially in Africa, age brings challenges that test the depth of marital vows. For example, a devout Christian man in Kenya who marries his beloved at 20 may find himself still romantically devoted by age 75, yet facing […]
Two Eras, Two Languages of Love There was a time in Kenya—and much of the world—when lovers exchanged handwritten letters, perfumed envelopes, and symbolic gifts like handkerchiefs or woven wristbands. These mementos were deeply treasured, sometimes tucked away in suitcases or under mattresses, guarded like sacred relics of romance. Today, we swipe, text, ghost, or […]
In a world that constantly demands more of our time, attention, and energy, the ability to say “no” is becoming a form of self-care. Across Kenya’s cities, towns, and even online spaces, more people are discovering a powerful truth: setting boundaries is not rude — it’s revolutionary. This shift raises an important question: why are […]
Many people find themselves unable to resist toxic attraction, repeatedly drawn to partners who harm them emotionally. This pattern—characterized by intense highs followed by pain—is rooted in psychological mechanisms like idealization and intermittent reinforcement If you’re tired of cycles of emotional chaos, this guide lays out clear steps to recognize and break free from toxic […]
In recent decades, marriage rates have declined across much of the developed and developing world. In countries like the United States, UK, and even parts of Africa, more men are opting out of marriage altogether. But what’s behind this quiet exodus from the altar? Why are many men refusing to marry? While there are multiple […]
